Why on earth would a Mistress debate with her sub? In my opinion sometimes it’s good to excercise the mind, chat, and tap into hidden desires. Conversation is needed to understand a submissives needs.

The debate with andrea and I is simple, I felt she has fucked up, she claims it never happened~
in reference to 8-27-05

Where do you go when you have hit a crossroad with your sub?, and your sub is calling you a basic liar? andrea wants to be punished for something she claims she didn’t do? The logic doesn’t make sense? Why punish someone who claims they are innocent? Was I quick to burn her at the stake?

I probably was quick in my decision in cutting the Domme/sub relationship, but for all the right reasons. Teaching andrea a lesson is something she needed to learn, there are over several different types of Dommes on Niteflirt. When andrea knows she has met the Domme who fits her criteria the relationship will work.

Andrea’s argument of how she has gone out of her way in serving me, and showing loyalty doesn’t make up for adding INSULT TO INJURY, possibly I was stupid in listening, but I wanted to give her a chance to explain. When trust has been fractured in my opinion everything else goes down hill from there and it can’t be recovered.

Now I can say all the subs I have tried molding who have declared loyalty, have all failed the only reason why andrea is a prime example. What can I say, “Most recent to fail”

it is better to have sluts, at least you know who they are!~ **smirks**

Phone Subs don’t understand loyalty, what it truly means to be submissive. Sure they might have the desire, but have a failing sense of commitment.

Wishing and Asking are 2 completely different levels of want, desire, and need. Take andrea for a moment, she only wanted to have her needs met. It wasn’t ever a problem until she declared loyalty, now tonight not even 3 weeks later, she’s fucking up again trust is a thin line.

What is a Domme to do, but only throw in the towel if he can respond to someone else. Why it is a search in finding your Domme. I don’t have physical control over her only mental control of trying to control her bitch ass in heat. Since this can’t be obtained properly, I haven’t much choice to except the fact, “andrea is andrew” the male sense will kick in and essentially say, “fuck it, and fuck you!”

Do I take it as a direct slap in the face? No, one might ask, “They are only what they chose to be, and do what they need to do.” Can it be any simpler, easier, and logical.

The Phone Domming world seems to only get better!! The more I know about We made andrea masturbate with toothpaste it was a lil warm making andrea stroke her clit with toothpaste for 20 mins. Doing the whole tease and denial while we laughed, made jokes, and thru it all andrea was a champ. Andrea needs to learn, you are here for Us, slaves are much higher on the food chain, we demand much more out of you. If pledging yourself to a Domme, we don’t play with our slaves we demand and expect nothing but devotion, dedication, and selfless servitude! subs and sluts rank less on the scale because they cycle around, we know you get around!, the more I like her style! It must be true about what they say about chemistry… The elements of a complex entity or a dynamic interrelation!

We had a caller on the phone Tom who is a complete anal slut! Jas brought me in on the call, when she contacted me it was ironic my phone was ringing! I had a niteflirt call which went quick only because I made it go quick. I hadn’t played with Jasmine in awhile, so Jas gave me some quick insight about Tom being a anal Slut!

He’s on the phone, and I ask, “Do you have any toys available?” He responded, “No” in turn, I ask, “Do you have a hairbrush or toothbrush” Tom responded cutely, “No, I only have my imagination.” Which made me smile even more!
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Tena the 32 yr old business man wrote: The main idea being a sensual tease, nice girlish, did I do that kind of thing with giggles :P

Not the “You ra worm crawl for me etc”. I dont have a foot fetish, a lot of girls presume I do.
The other thing is to keep it real. I want to be able to do the things you say :) You will own
my winkie , and what I do with it, and when I get to make spooty/orgasms. I also would like
you to “force” me to wear diapers, and wet them (I only wet them). I like to rub them against things
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