Hi,

Firstly, please forgive me for contacting you before calling – from experience I understand that most advisers on Niteflirt don’t really like this… however I hope you’ll understand my reasons:

- my tastes are quite unusual and are not shared by everybody; – I’ve wasted a lot of time and money on unsatisfying experiences.

- Given my unique personal circumstances (which I’m happy to discuss further if you wish) Niteflirt is my only opportunity to live out my long held fantasies. I therefore, want to make the most of every experience; (Excellent Execution of the introduction)

- Niteflirt charges me extra for being “international”!(Why would I be concerned with international charges?, you chose Niteflirt deal with the circumstances NF comes with)

Hopefully you understand my reasons for emailing and don’t object to me contacting you. However, if you do object, I’m really sorry to have wasted your time.

Essentially, I’m a very kinky and adventurous submissive. Niteflirt is currently my only way of fulfilling my submissive fantasies. Unfortunately from past experience with advisers on Niteflirt, I find that sessions tend to be quite mundane and I’m generally disappointed by the lack of creativity and excitement involved. I’ve found that these sessions are quite “typical” and often involve the same old activities, props and almost seem “scripted” at times. (Don’t tell Me about your lack of success in finding a proper Domme, you call to find out about the Domme, think of it as a paid Interview! If it doesn’t work they work than you need to see it as an incorrect fit, remember you are the sub looking for a match. Noticing your mild temper tantum won’t help you in anyway shape or form. Coming across with your tidbits of complaints will only turn the Advisor off, because you have preconceived notion of what you believe is to come)

I guess part of the problem is that I’m fairly experienced and have high expectations. In a nutshell, what I’m looking for is very creative domination, lots of surprises and hopefully establishing a productive relationship over time with somebody intelligent, imaginative and caring. (If you have such experience and expectations you should also keep in mind nothing comes for free ever! If you believe domination comes for free, your in for one hell of a wake up call, and you better learn your place incredibly soon. So it truly makes Me wonder how much experience do you truly possess?)

{I am interested in almost every aspect of domination. In particular I like all types of pain, humiliation, roleplay, dressing up etc. I have also recently become interested in things like orgasm denial/teasing/edging/humiliating orgasms etc. I also like to try many other things like sensation play, self-bondage, unusual situations and predicament play. For me, variety is certainly the spice of life! I also like to do lots of preparation and follow instructions to set the scene and make sure I have the right props ready (I don’t have many “toys” but I’m happy to improvise or make purchases as necessary).

Generally I prefer more a sensuous, manipulative demeanour rather than insults and anger but as with most things I like lots of variety. Matching that, I am a very visual creature – and love fetish-wear, short skirts, stockings & suspenders (a fetish of mine!), spiked heels etc (again it’s the variety I like!).

From a personal perspective – I’m a 27-year-old Scottish man. I’m fit, healthy and would consider myself fairly normal, sane, kind, honest and friendly. I hope the above goes some way to explaining myself. I tried to keep it as brief as possible but also to convey what I was looking for. If you’d like to know any more then I’d be very happy to answer any questions you may have.

I really hope you’re interested because I was very interested in you and hope that we can have some mutually fulfilling time together. If you are interested in me then I look forward to hearing from you soon.} (This portion is all you needed to send! Think about it when you decide to send a Mass email to several speakers.)

Thanks for your time.

With best wishes,

Ken